The sun is beating down harder as daylight stretches into the late evening, which means another school year is rounding to a close. For many of you, however, the drop-offs, lunch packing and daily activity schedules are year-round — particularly if your children are headed to summer camp. During those hours, it’s the camp counselors who become an essential facet of your child’s summer.
If you find yourself wondering how to enhance summer camp not only for your child, but also the counselors responsible for them during camp hours, here are some refreshing insights from camp staff.
That comedy is a confidence builder
The Crow’s comedy camp for kids in Santa Monica structures its camp around teaching children the authentic art of comedy with each week leading up to a culminating Friday performance. These performances include all of the kids’ jokes; characters and sketches, too, are their own creations. Ike Turman empowers his campers by teaching them how to build their comedy pieces with story structures and using comedy to help bolster their self-confidence.
Turman says he “…wishes parents knew how meaningful these experiences can be for their kids. Yes, it’s a way to get them out of the house in the summer months, but it can also be a way to show them how valuable their voice and ideas are and show them how to respect that voice and those ideas, how to contribute meaningfully to the world in the ways only they can, as a truly valuable part of that world.” Turman believes all children “have great ideas worth the respect, time and effort the adults in their lives ought to be putting in, in order to teach them how to express all of it.”
That it takes courage to attend camp
When she reflects on how shy she was as a kid, Paloma Ying Hashemi, also a counselor with The Crow’s comedy camp for kids, wishes she could have experienced the transformative power of live performance like the children she mentors get to experience.
But when it comes to her students, “I wish parents knew how much courage it takes for their kids to attend summer camp, especially a camp of this nature,” Hashemi says. “It’s daunting and difficult for a kid to be thrust into an environment where they’re learning something brand new with no familiar faces to rely on. And in the case of performance-based camps, they demand a certain degree of vulnerability from the campers.
“The short duration of summer camps expedites the friendship-making process and forces campers to put themselves out there to form relationships,” she adds. “This type of environment brings out the best in kids, and I’ve seen so many beautiful bonds form in just a few days, but it’s also extremely nerve-wracking. Most summer camps involve learning new skills, and campers have to be willing to try, fail and try again over and over in front of their peers who they’ve only just met. That takes more courage and persistence than anyone gives them credit for.”
That healthy snacks (yes, even during the summer) are a must
Coaching young men into compassionate, confident individuals is the mission of Christian Bryan, a mentor for Reach Academy for Young Men in Beverly Hills.
Bryan’s wishes are simple: He “wishes parents knew to pack more snacks and healthier snacks for their kids.” It may seem like just another trivial detail to slow up your morning rush, but he believes “some parents fail to understand the irritability of a hungry kid. It would not only make my job easier as your kid’s counselor, but it would also, and more importantly, improve your child’s summer camp experience by giving them the energy to effectively participate in activities, make friends and have fun.”
That your camp staff cares
Another passionate mentor at Reach Academy for Young Men, Noble Morris wishes parents “knew how much we care about and love the kids we mentor, even if we only [work with] them in a span of a few weeks.” For the kids, Noble says, “I wish they knew how hard we try to keep the kitchen clean after they’ve finished using it!”
But whether they’re messy or not, Morris also wants campers to know they can “come to us at any time, even outside of camp settings, if they want someone to talk to or need help with anything.”
That everyone at camp benefits
Kayla Burfadeci, a sports camp counselor for Got Game , which has four locations throughout L.A. County, loves her job and considers herself a “very fun, positive person,” though she’s had her fair share of “off days.” For Burfadeci, it’s important to her that parents know how their kids have positively impacted her life.
“As soon as I see the kids, I feel an instant joy just when they say ‘Hi, Coach Kayla’ from a distance,” she says. “They have gotten me through some hard times, and I am so grateful for all of them.”
That learning is a gift
Patrick Smith is the program manager of Rediscover Center in Venice and Mid City, but he’s had his fair share of counseling experience, too. Smith wants to remind parents of the importance in embracing every win, big or small.
“Your kids are spending their hours at camp learning, discovering, experimenting and having real hands-on experiences,” he says. “Sometimes. those efforts [culminate in] an impressive, tangible project at the end of the week, and sometimes [children leave with] ideas, questions and stories.” Smith reminds parents that “the best gift you can give [your children] is your own curiosity.”
Emily Ip is an editorial intern at L.A. Parent and a college freshman.